Ah to grow up with Boys!
My niece, Michelle Cope, recently found this photo while collecting
vintage photos for a NetDocuments Christmas party at Sundance Resort.
Study the faces
and stances and think of how these Boys turned out. Start with Stu, on the left, “Stuart Von
Duncan”, also known affectionately in the neighborhood as “Sunny Boy”. Note Stu’s happy, sunny face. It’s like he is saying with his smile, “Mom,
you can take pictures of me all day!“ Stu grew up as a gentle giant, always
with a new joke to spread and always with a jovial personality. And how about
that Cowboy outfit that Stu is wearing?
Mom always dressed us up (see the photos below of two Mercurys where it
appearsthat Mom dressed us to match the cars), no matter what we were doing or
where we were going. Stu turned out to
be a math teacher at Orem High School in Orem, Utah. Stu has fun with all the students and wins
them over with his smile and sense of humor.
Now let’s study Lee, the cute little toe head in the middle,
the third of seven boys. Lee Alan
Duncan, known as “Lee”, has a face that says “I’ll let you take this picture if
you’ll let me develop the film or wear a baseball cap backwards!” Or, if you are using the right camera you
might get some good photos. And if you are
not using the right camera Lee will help you get the right one. Lee was always helpful to everyone. He was also inquisitive and always wanted to
know how things worked. Lee pursued a
business career and is one of three founders of NetDocuments and is today its
COO (Chief Operating Officer).
Finally, who is the guy on the right? His body language and expression says that he
either wanted Stu’s Cowboy outfit for the photo or he wanted to stand in the
center for the photo op. And growing up
with such a happy brother and such a helpful brother, what does his face
communicate. Intensity, anxiousness,
stress, a “I’m going to kick your butt if you don’t hurry and shoot that
picture” attitude!, or “Mom, what is with these blue polyester pants…….why
couldn’t I wear my Wranglers?” Ken or
“Kenny” or Kenneth Westover (Mother’s maiden name) Duncan grew up to be an
entrepreneur and is one of three founders of NetDocuments and is today its
CEO. The third founder of NetDocuments
is Alvin S. Tedjamulia, born in Jakarta, Indonesia (how about 2 boys from
Joseph City, Arizona, Population 500, teaming up with a boy...Alvin Tedjamulia...from Jakarta,
Indonesia, Population 10,000,000+).
The seven sons, who came in two batches, a threesome of
"War Babies" born 16 months apart right after World War II, and about
whom this blog post is primarily written, and the second batch which included Bill,
Jerry, Scott and Earl, a foursome. We
seven sons had one sister, whom the Boys ran away from the Boy-dominated home, then
she got married and had four sons of her own!
Growing up with seven Boys, with a World War II First
Sergeant as the commander, we experienced a lot of Boy-type activities. We bunked in a room with three beds, one of
which was a roll-away (I had the middle bed and my nose nearly touched Stu’s
bed above me). Lee’s bed, the roll-away,
was the easiest to get in and out of. In addition to prayers at night, we all
enjoyed leaving our socks bundled up when we took them off so that we could
throw them (like a basketball shot or baseball throw) into a small waste
basket. Poor Mom, who never complained, had to not only pull apart the socks
but she also had to separate the socks from the gum and trash in the
wastebasket.
There is an advantage to having Boys while traveling. Dad was always in a hurry on vacations. Like keeping those long trains rolling along
northern Arizona and New Mexico (Dad was a locomotive engineer on the Santa Fe
railroad), he wasn’t about to stop every 10 miles for a boy to pee. A large
empty Pineapple can became a mobile urinal.
And, similar to trains, it was convenient to “flush” the contents out
the window. Another time saver during
travel was for Dad and Mom to exchange seats on the fly by sliding across the
console-free front seat, at sixty miles an hour, to exchange drivers.
Sports soon became an interest of all Boys. Baseball, basketball, and track all became fun pastimes
for the Boys. In baseball Lee was a catcher (note the cap on backwards), Stu a
baseman and I was a pitcher, with a
pretty good sidearm. I remember scoring 56
points in a basketball game and track was always fun as I was able to jump my
height of 6 ft. 1 inch.
Only the Boys grew up
working for the Westover Guernsey Dairy in Joseph City. We did all the chores and activities
associated with a small Dairy farm, including naming the Cows we milked after
our girlfriends (who were mostly imaginary).
You could always smell a Duncan or Westover Boy at a local church dance on
Saturday night because it smelled like walking by the Dairy. Stu wondered why our Uncle Russell Westover
always had us clean out the septic tank on a Saturday when there was a dance
that night. We Boys got a lot UDDERLY
brilliant wisdom and counsel from Uncle Russell while milking the Cows at 5:00
a.m. in the mornings.

We three Boys also got to hunt Mule Deer with Dad. It was not easy for his young recruits to follow
him through the Mogollon Rim country in the Sitgreaves national forest in
northern Arizona. Sometimes it felt like we walked from Winslow to Payson. Dad's pace while hiking was amazing and I realized
that I inherited some of those walking (really "sprinting") genes
when I out-walked business associates on the streets of Manhattan or Chicago. Dad also showed his marksmanship skills and
soldier style carrying his Springfield 3.06 rifle. We Boys thought that it was pretty cool that
Dad brought his combat rifle home from the War.
On one hunting expedition Dad took us south of Winslow in our
"Woody" station wagon (an early SUV and he actually had 2 of them at
one time) and
when he saw a herd of Antelope he pulled off the road an rambled through the
Sagebrush going about 50-60 miles per hour.
But the Antelope ran about 60 miles an hour. We Boys couldn’t stay in our seats. I couldn't imagine how Dad would ever get a
shot off at the Antelope, let alone hit one in such a race. I realized that Dad just wanted to do some
"4-Wheeling" in his new toy.
This was before the days of seat belts and I remember bouncing in the
back seat with my body bouncing off the ceiling.
Every once in a while Dad would take one of us Boys with him
on the train. What a thrill riding in
the lead engine at 79 MPH racing across that beautiful high desert Indian
country from Winslow, Arizona to Gallup, New Mexico. Then while “laying over” in Gallup Dad would
take us to a Mexican food dinner or maybe a movie. Of course Dad’s favorite activity to pass the
time away in Gallup was to walk all over town.
Many of the “Hog Headers” spent time in one or several of Gallup’s
numerous and famous watering holes. I
remember later in life when I was a college student working summers on the
railroad as a brakemen. I was walking
down the street (Route 66) when all of a sudden two drunk Indians came flying
through the swinging doors and out of a bar.
It was a scene out of a John Wayne movie and I truly thought I was in
the Wild West.
We Boys also got introduced to Band a Joseph City marching Band
where Stu played a Trumpet, Lee a Clarinet, and me a Trombone. And, we were all
cool because we could wear sun glasses in the bright Arizona sun. I was not a
good Band member. I recall that we were
in the Band room in the Old School playing the Great Gate of Kiev and I got a
little too much vibrato, syncopation or Staccato, not sure which of these
concepts I abused; maybe all of them, but it got me the Band. Mr. Wright, our Band teacher, threw the baton
at me and said, “here, Ken, you take this Band since you won’t let me run
it”. Getting control of the Band, along
with eating Karen Foree’s lunch while being locked in the closet so that Mr.
Hansen could conduct his class, may have got me the last real physical spanking
in a public school.

I am so thankful that Johnny Paulsel, a local cattle
rancher, moved to Joseph City and with his wife started a 4-H chapter. We got to choose nearly any animal we wanted
to raise. Stu raised a Holstein Heifer, Lee raised a black-faced sheep and I
raised a Hereford Steer. In the fall we
dressed up our animals and took them to the Navajo County Fair. Before the animals were able to enter the
Fair they had to be judged. I’ll never forget the kind but stern judge of the
Steers. He examined the rest of the
steers then walked over to me and leaned
down and said something like “Young Man, yours is the best Steer of the Lot and should be the Grand
Champion; however, he will receive only
Reserve Grand Champion. The reason the Steer did not get Grand Champion is
because he was topped of too late, or in otherwise you did not “finish” off
your Steer soon enough. In other words
you should have started him on grain much sooner. The lesson: Always finish 100% of the job,
even if is difficult.
We three Boys took several trips to Utah with our
parents. A favorite stop was Provo,
Utah, where Brigham Young University was located. This may have been so long ago that the
statue on the campus of Brigham Young may have included his beard! We Boys not
only earned several degrees (5) from BYU but we were all also BYU ward bishops
at the same time. Mom must have had a little pride at that time.
We brothers continued to grow up together and enjoy a
Boys’ life. We grew up, married and raised families and often heard our
sweet Mother praise our wives for “finishing” off her
Boys.